Wednesday, July 25, 2012

What do you get when you put an Imam, a Reverend and a Rabbi in a room?


As promised, I’ve signed on tonight to update you about the session I attended today entitled: “Good Catholics Use Condoms: Answering the Tough Questions that Come up When Discussion HIV Prevention”. While the purpose of this blog is by no means to discuss my own personal beliefs and religious values, I will begin by stating that I don’t associate my-self with the Jewish, Catholic or Muslim religions. As such, I was excited but slightly nervous to attend this session, sensing that I might be totally out of place and perhaps even judged. What I failed to remember was that the International AIDS Conference is by far one of the most open and accepting venues one could ever attend, and that as long as you go in with an open mind and heart, others will receive you with the same kindness.

Though it took some significant effort on my part, I set aside my own personal prejudices and feelings before entering the session room, and sat down ready to make a fresh opinion. I can’t begin to explain how shocked, relieved and delighted I was to hear a gay Imam (an imam is an Islamic leadership position, often the worship leader of a mosque and the Muslim community) and a reverend and rabbi that also offered acceptance and compassion for the LGBTQ (lesbian, gay, bisexual, transsexual and queer) community and PLWHA (people living with HIV/AIDS). Their presentations told stories of discrimination that they them-selves have faced through out their careers as religious leaders that promote the use of condoms in sexual relations and advocate for safe and healthy sex practices.

One quote by Reverend Vincent Lachina really hit home for me:
“Too often our faith traditions are as damaging as our behavioral decisions”.

In this quote, he was speaking out to the fact that many Catholics will refrain from getting tested for HIV/AIDS as getting tested means that they are questioning their God’s ability to protect them from such a virus. This decision, can in fact, be as dangerous as that to not wear a condom in the first place.

I left the session with a sense of revitalization and support for the Catholic, Jewish, Muslim and all other religious and non-religious communities that are willing to incorporate safe sex practices and broaden their teachings to go beyond “abstinence only”. As a strong advocate for safe sex education (and all its components), I felt truly impressed and empowered by this presentation.

Just goes to show you how far an open mind can go!
Off for dinner with my partner in crime,

-Tracey K

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